Old School
Nice to Have
There’s a big difference between “need to have” and “nice to have.” Growing up, I went to Catholic school (kindergarten through high school), so I was always in a uniform. I didn’t always have the nicest stuff, but I had everything I needed. Back then, I think things were a lot easier too. We weren’t into the name brands and makeup and what not like kids are today.
I remember when I discovered Dunkin Donuts®. I had to have been like 7. SERIOUSLY. I’m pretty sure that I found a coupon in the Sunday paper and showed my mom. She said we could go after church! We got a dozen!!! Point is, life back then was all about “need to have.” The “nice to have” stuff I had to figure out on my own … and I did.
And so it begins … In college, I didn’t have to wear a uniform! I didn’t have much money, but I was as stylish as I could be. I had those platform sneaker things, dark jeans, Saucony® sneakers, etc. I bought it all myself. I waitressed and taught kickboxing (in addition to dancing on the SJU dance team).
After college, I made a decent paycheck! My wardrobe got a major upgrade. I didn’t have to save up for a pair of $20 LEI jeans at TJ Maxx® anymore. The shoes piled up. So did the “baby doll” tee shirts, knick knacks, you know.
And now … I’m planning a wedding and it’s expensive! Not only are we in a crazy economy, I can’t just buy what I want when I want it. Right now, Billy and I are trying to get our finances together and be smarter, save more and pick and choose how we spend our money. I promised myself that I’d do more research on money management. I’d read the books I have. Find out whatever I can … and get back to the “need to have” thinking.
With that being said, below is a list of things that would be “nice to have.” I’m not buying any of this for myself! But, since I have an anniversary, 30th birthday and Valentine’s coming up, it’s just nice to put it out there for fun!
- Under Armour® Compression Capri (Heat Gear) Tights
- Ugg® Dakota shoes
- Simple® CARat shoes
- Psychologies magazine subscription
- Color Me Mine/pottery gift certificate
- Mani/pedi gift certificate
- Large Coach wristlet
- Comfy sweatpants
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