Accepting and Embracing Change

It’s been exactly one week and a day since I got let go from my full-time gig. I’m no longer an “account executive” in a marketing department, and I’m no longer in the financial services industry.

“Account executive” doesn’t actually describe the work that I did. I didn’t have an account, but I surely had a lot of internal “clients.” I’d say I was a copywriter. I wrote for the internal and external newsletters … among other things. It was a good experience, and so was my work at my position before that (in a marketing department in the healthcare industry).

At both of these places, I met some of my closest friends — and my two mentors. At both places, I doubted myself as a writer (pushed through it, obviously!), and I was challenged all the time. I loved it! These experiences are what makes me who I am today. I got affirmation about what’s important to me, and clarity on how to live a life with passion.

Here I am
I cried in the car driving away from my old job. I called my fiancé, my mom and my best friend. And, during the hour drive to teach my kickboxing class, I “got over it.” Life is about change, and opportunities are out there for me. I haven’t felt bad about myself or gotten emotional about it since. Why? Because I did my best and have no regrets. It’s like Don Miguel Ruiz says:

Always do your best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

My current goals
I just want to keep learning and keep myself challenged. I want to meet more people and keep helping others. I want to be creative, energized and do what I’m good at.

I want to teach as many exercise classes as humanly possibleand show off my “Gwenergy.” I want to keep motivating other people to be healthy, and I want to inspire them. I’ll also get a personal training certification from the National Academy of Sports Medicine.

As far as writing, I’ll keep up my blog, write for other blogs and publications and work with as many editors and writers as I can.

From there, I’ll take my time finding work. I want the right thing! Ideally, it will incorporate fitness, healthcare and social media.

I’m not worried
This is all meant to be. I’m happy with what I’ve accomplished, and how things have fallen into place. I’m excited for new opportunities!

Photo by worldmegan.

  • hollyfulfordjef

    Good on you!! Keep teaching your classes and do what you say! You may not need to find a “HOB” with all that you have planned. It is soooooo cool to be your own boss!! Even if you loved what you did, it is always so much better when you can say yes or no of your own accord! The best of life and you begin your new journey!

  • Dee-Dee

    It's great to hear how you took an unfortunate situation and turned it around to make it inspirational with your positive outlook. Most people will continue to dwell on a bad situation but you see how when a door is closed, God opens windows :) and for that reason, I know you'll get to where you want to be and where you are meant to be. “nothing is permanent except change” and as cliche as it is, things really do happen for a reason. Continuing attracting positive energy into your life and things will fall into place. I love you and miss you! come up for Easter?!

  • Ron

    Way to stay positive! It never feels like it at the time, but layoffs and other life changing events are opportunities. It's happened to me before and others I know and in every case new doors were opened that led to a better job or situation. Life is full of constant change. Thats not a bad thing, it's really a hopeful thing. Just keep moving!

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